When I split with Jen, I just LEFT. What I could put in a van and a 6x12 enclosed trailer.
Let me put it this way - I left my copy of Unintended Consequences.
I was never around her after that without MY witnesses being present.
I think Heinlein had something in one of his books about not owning anything more than you could carry in both hands at a dead run.
Divorce: The Court ordered that an adult had to be present when a bud visited with his kid or went anywhere with the child. He had a hard time finding people who would do this for him, but I agreed.
It was another one of those vengeance things by his old lady, at least to hear him tell it. But I have no real reason to doubt him, given other war stories from other divorces.
He disappeared after a couple of those visiting sessions, no doubt at the aforementioned dead run. I never found out what happened or where he went or anything, and
I sure as hell didn't want to ask his ex.
Sad.